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Sex is in our human nature, to be honest. If you want to leave the chionging scene, should look for buddies that you can be open with, and ask them to keep an eye on you. Quitting is never easy but the first step is always the hardest. It gets easier from there.
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..exactly what can you do with the upped points ?
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It was tough initially to stop myself from going back cheonging. I implemented the following mindset/measures. Financially: I measured what $60 can give me that makes sense. Thats half a month of my 2 kids pocket money. or i could buy a PS5 game (with a bit of top up). Or i could treat my family 4 mcDonald's meals for that month etc. All that vs a 25-30 min euphoria (and post nut clarity)? Physiology: i started going out for morning slow runs. started with 1km, then 2.5km, then 4km, 5km. After 1 year, i am now running 4km to 7km on weekday mornings (2-3 times) + a 14km long run on Sat or Sun. I do still think of sex. But i realised that the horniness goes off after 3 days. And i can go on without pcc for 6 days, with totally zero urge. But of course, it can only last a short while. Psychology: So after not pcc for about a week, i felt that i needed to clean my pipe. I experimented with ways to max out my enjoyment and i come back to this forum to read the saucy stories, field reports and see the Dome pics, without touching myself. Then, i'll just indulge in porn and do my thing. About 20 minutes of edging later, i can get extreme mind blown orgasm. Even better than what ML/FL can give. Once the pipe cleared, the monkey brain will come back within 2 hours to crave for action again. so mindset goes back to Financial part to try dissuade myself. After 1 year though, i might come back cheong, but only because i forgot what it feels like haha. Hope my experience can help those who wish to quit cheonging to save money. |
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For some, they just get on in age, libido drops, and they just stop going.
For the lucky ones that have high libido even in older years, if you can still get it, why deprive yourself ? Even sg government give license for it to be legal, means they recognise that there is a need for it. |
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I guess for me it is post nut non-satisfaction/unfulfillment. I have not had sexual intercourse, outside of bbbj/cim, for at least 8 years. 2023, 2 sessions of bj/cim, and thats it. |
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Sometimes have to look at it from another angle.
Its either you are carefree and can afford the enjoyment, or you have stress and sex is a good way for you to destress. You need a valid reason to want to retire, not just because some say it is negative thing. You can't live your life according to what some say. |
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I went on hiatus in order to save money. Was i happier? Only in monetary sense. But when that itch comes, it can be shitty. But hey, i found running helpful. Now my financial standing is better, i'll explore GL again. but of cos, not neglecting my running hobby. |
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Valentine’s Day self-reflection anyone?
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It can most probably lead to compensated rebound in time. |
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Keep yourself occupied and cut down number of bonk.
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Lets summarize
Why? - Have a good enough reason Saving money Waste of time Unsatisfied FL experience How? Find something else to keep occupied Pcc when there is urge Go exercise Visit less SBF or Telegram |
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