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That's why im targeting WLs who want to access a sperm bank, but use mine as a substitute for free. A child is gonna be born without a dad anyway, let it be mine.

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I'm ok to set aside 1k minimum. Anyway in China 1k is more than enough .. especially when the kid is younger and taken care in the village .

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TS has made his point very clear. Consider the worst case scenario of a born child and his/her growing up years. Unless u can modify his/her genes to such a way that he/she can at the very least take care of himself/herself.

Enough said. No need to conflict any further and as long as you are aware, then that's good enough.

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Thanks pictonary.

I realise a sex forum isn't exactly the best place to have such dicussions.

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Agree bro, but the forum helps you to find bros in similar situations :D

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Just give your applause to him for being a hooker Romeo & able to get a FL to father his child. He’s not here for constructive feedback.

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Yea just get them pregnant and leave them alone

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I have set up a telegram group with some bros from SBF who are in a similar situation.

If you are also keeping a mistress with kids or intend to do so, please PM me so I can add you to the group (:

Re: WL willing to make a love child for me
 

Xiao San club

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I don't think TS is really here to get the answers to his questions. I think you had pretty much thought through the scenarios and know the answers to your questions. My feeling is you are here trying to gett some affirmation. Honestly, don't.

If you have made up your mind and think you know what you are doing, you should go ahead and do it. And since it is your child, do have his/her welfare at heart. I don't think it is easy growing up without a father. Money solves a lot of things. Doesn't fill the hole in someone's heart though, especially a kid.

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thanks for all your comments, I have taken in some of your thoughts actually. So I appreciate everyone who has highlighted potential traps

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Hi TS,
Being a father, I can understand your anxiety in having a child of your own flesh and blood. But think in the child's shoes when he grows up, the stigma of not having his father with him most of the time. Unless you are willing to spend your time with him in China thru his growing years, it can affect him psychologically.
My father in law had a family in China also not thru marriage. You can say his mistress. He also shuttles between China, Malaysia and Singapore. When he died in China, we could not bring his body back to Singapore. They cremated his body in China which made us suspect he was murdered as he was also a very healthy man. But we had no evidence. So we just were allowed to bring back his urn.
Imagine that we could not even pay our respect to him in China.
If Bro wants to go ahead there is no stopping him. Just be wary of those in China. Your WL may be alright but check her family thoroughly. You will be out numbered over there.

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Thanks mav. Good point raised, I am also wary of the people in Mainland China because after all it is their 地盘， as a foreigner I will be outnumbered/outplayed if I go there.

Recently, my WL tried to borrow a large sum of money from me so it was a major red flag, so this is a big minus point for me.

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Depending on the province but 1k is really not enough bro unfortunately. I give 6k monthly to my gf there also not enough. Cost of living is increasing even in tier 2 provinces.

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Just to clarify, 6k SGD a month? That's a lot of money you are giving. I've already calculated the cost of living in China, it's not that steep. For 6k u can raise a family in SG or even the UK