Switching MLs in same MP
 

After visiting the ML for 2-3 times she gives good personalized service like hugs and frenching. However is very possessive.
Doesn't even allow chatting with any of her colleagues.
However got this one colleague I wanna try.
Any ideas on how to switch without having to wait for the first MLs day off.
Of course if I do cold turkey I'll lose my privelegws for being a regular and also be labelled as a switcher by the new ML.
For most this is not a problem, but for me it's the awkwardness.
Any bros faced the same dilemma?

Re: Switching MLs in same MP
 

You have the right to choose since you paid for the services.

Why bother with what the ML thinks or feels?

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I guess you're right. It's a bit of a gamble though because the current ML is really good
I want to have my cake and eat it too, have everything
Maybe I should try tarma

Re: Switching MLs in same MP
 

Switch once then go back to your regular. If she complains, tell her "You are still the best. That's why I come back to you. Nothing compares 2 U." See what she says or does.

Re: Switching MLs in same MP
 

Nice one 😜

Re: Switching MLs in same MP
 

ask her when is her off day, then you come and try the new ml...

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Still not safe one. No guarantees the new ML won't recognise OP as the regular of her other colleague, then go and tell the regular ML that he went to visit someone else (aka herself) on the regular ML's off day.

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Want to switch just switch. You think you're getting good GFE personalised service because you're loyal to the ML as a person, but in reality she's KC-ing you and being loyal only to your wallet and regular custom. She might be your only ML you go to, but you're one of many guys she's giving the same GFE treatment to, only a matter of whether you know or acknowledge it or not.

Possessive working ladies are a red flag in any case. They just end up driving away business not just for themselves but for the joints they work at.

Re: Switching MLs in same MP
 

Good points will heed your advise, and thanks the north remembers.

Agreed with Bro here, i tried to be loyal to the a ML and avoid visiting others at the joint. At the end of the day, the ML I loyal to become someone's gf or mistress and I waste the opportunities to try the Ang Pai and pretty MLs.

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Actually this is true. GFE is not difficult for them to duplicate across diff people. If your ML is talked about on this forum, try asking around. It is very likely you are not the only one getting the so-called "special" treatment.

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ML will never be loyal to one customer only so we also no need to be so loyal to one.

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Same… i used to stick to this particular ML. 1st knew her in BQ. my ML is currently not working already and told me she intend to get a full time office job. Still asked me how do we locals usually find jobs in SG. I even sent her the job street link.

If she were to switch to a full time office job. Confirmed earn less than when she was working as a masseuse. Plus some of the signs, I suspected she is either bao (包）” or that married guy mistress/ gf. That married guy is working in the property line lor.

Fully agreed! Want to change, just change! You go back to the diff one, she will still do the same for you as long as you pay her. She is not your gf. If she tries to ask u for more because u were “disloyal”,, politely tell her to fuck off.

Possessiveness always appear amidst insecurity and result in unhealthy competition. Instead of retaining this drives business away. Often times customers end up bringing their business elsewhere rather than back at the same shop.

The more times you visit that one fixed ML, the harder it will be to make the switch. If you visited only 3 times, then totally no harm switching to try others in the shop.

Once I did this after visiting one particular ML multiple times over until even have discount for special. Then switch to try her colleague. It was super awkward when I went to the shop, my regular saw me first and thought I came for her without booking.

What happen after? Next time I went back to my regular, she just said got return to her is good enough :D Service became better too, I feel.

These ladies are used to rejection and ghosted by customers, don't worry.