[JWNY]

Hope everyone is enjoying the holidays and thank you for the very constructive replies...

I, myself, believe that love can sort of be cultivated for someone as bro Five Stone has mentioned, yes - we can appreciate this person. However, is it for obvious reasons that we have done so? The most common I can think of

- all my friends are married EXCEPT me!
- Oh..look at the calender, I'm 35 tomorrow...and alone still
- we've already been together for 7 years...i guess this person is the one
- mummy thinks she's the best choice
- again, etc, etc

To bro qw2op, sometimes or even usually, we don't get what we want...but this is just for discussion of "what may have been"?

JWNY