Wow... this thread is EXCITING... I LIKE IT
(just watched Star Trek on HBO, and that line that Scotty says after Kirk's fight with Spock stuck to me).
For me personally, i follow bro Sammy's 3 rules cuz they are basic essential rules to live by when dealing with working girls... but with slight (very slight) modification.
I personally refrain from treating these "service providers" as common objects in hopes of breaking the ice better. In other words, when I make the effort of being a gentleman with these ladies, i'm usually rewarded with better service, sweeter attitude, and more pleasing efforts from these ladies.
Common everyday offers such as "Would you like a drink?", or "do you want a snack?", or even make jokes to make her laugh, can really REALLY go a long way to recieve better services.
But once these girls/ladies walk out of my hotel room, then that's it... on with everyday life, and forget everything about her (other than her name, and memories of the "service").
I rarely RTF. And if i do RTF, it has to be with someone FUN. That's it: FUN... not "Like" or "Love"... just bonking fun.
Just my thoughts
