[Willamshakspear]

The beginning of any relationship is always first physical attraction, then conversation.

The basis/base-line of any STRONG relationship is often based upon Common Interests-books, sports, politics, etc, & even window shopping. It needs such commonality to SUSTAIN a relationship when the physical attraction wanes.

Without common interests, couples stop talking to each other, & find another, resulting in break-ups of relationships & worse-divorced if married.

It may had been PHYSICAL ATTRACTION that brought you both together, & as you had said, she poured out her issues in her life to you. Women love listeners. You probably did a good job & thus she texts you after work - someone whom will listen to her issues instead of dictating & demanding to her such as her boss or customers.

But such are not how relationships are build upon. You may be a good listener, have the time, but you too, like most, will have own issues in life - then who will listen to you, to share & care? She may not be the type whom will listen to your woes, as she thinks her issues r far bigger than yours, being a foreign lady working in this industry in this country.

Furthermore, girls in this industry are not alone. She would have to be recommended to the job & peers whom teach her the ways, & falling in love should be the last thing she should do, as it will only lead to despair & pain later. She too will age, & customers attracted to physical looks/actions will go for another when bored. Thus perhaps her guard up, to protect herself.

Due to 2yrs of Covid restrictions, it had upended many lives both physically and mentally. Humans r sociable creatures. Once deprived of it, the mental strain shows, more so upon those whom are introverts & will feel lonely. And thus they will fall freely blindly unaware of pitfalls once someone shows attention & affection, expending emotions & finance easily.

When one enters this industry as a customer, one must always follow the rules - never be overwhelmed by attention & affection, but pay up, F & F, & walk away to spare oneself mental, physical, emotional & financial pain later.

She may be doing you favor, as she knows herself & her trade. You now only need to know yourself, to walk away and find someone you can share common interests in life, such as at work, at malls, at sports facillities, etc. There are many. At worse, match making services for demure foreign brides to teach & build up relationships, than girls in this sad industry...