Life is very strange. Some bros feels their wife not sexy, don’t like sexy and become lazy/ dino bu etc…
The other perspective wife become milf, dress sexy, love sex and like to give half ball. The group scare ppl start feasting on wife.
What if your wife dress like this pancake seller at home?
As whole, I think you have to build that relationship. Understand what she wants. If you don’t, likely she gives you nothing or it lands on someone else plate