[larue]

It's hard to find another person perfectly compatible indeed.

Perhaps some people have too much love to give to, or too many needs to get from any one single person.

Maybe you could try initiating something kinky with her? From FLs you are used to a certain 'level of service', but maybe she's capable of more if you push the right buttons?

Maybe she could be the best 'slut' you've ever had?

I believe we have made enough mistakes with our marriages to be able to avoid repeating it.

If it's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker. No ifs or buts.