[desmond_lee]

life usually sucks as there is seldom a perfect scenario. e.g a job that pays well with a lousy boss or vice versa.

the thing about chonging too much is, when come to plain jane girl for r/s, the expectation about sex is totally screwed up, seldom will a normal girl give services like bbbj, cim, AR, etc whatever. but at the same time one is not willing to totally give up on the girl as outside the bedroom the r/s is great.

in summary, want a wife that cares for you and at same time great in bed, yes its possible but not easy, in most cases have to settle for either one, my one cent of salt, esp if you are only a avg joe.