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Originally Posted by vcvt
Wise words...
And I didn't know got this mutual.optiion. Worth looking at it.
The thing is, I don't have negative feelings towards my wife... its just no passion. We don't have children so less common interest.
Being married for many years also means there's a level of attachment as well... so not 100% easy to let go.
Aiyah, I know words or thoughts are just going in circles.
Lucky have forums like this to share such "shade" thoughts..even my friends think I siao to give up so much for a k girl.
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Be fair to your wife also. I am sure she does not want a loveless relationship. Without kids is easier to handle though i do not advocate for divorce but resolution. But usually it is tough. Girls have shelf life, let her find someone who loves her more and perhaps can make her happier, unless you feel you can be that person too. As for k girl or fl or ml, they are humans too. Usually 80% of the case, they will not want to be in this line if they can afford to. Some may choose the easy way out of things but principles and values can also change for them. You can ask these girls if they ever want their kids or future kids to follow their foot step, the answer is no. Most girls in singapore are just fortunate to be able to have decent family and education opportunities.