At the point of no return?

[jackson59]

Hello all

26M here.
I chanced upon this website 6years when I was just a poly student. At the start, all I was interested in was the media sharing section of SBF. But as I grow up and starts to make more money, I ventured into massages shared by users here. They ranges from house(HDB/Condo) massages to MP. The thrill of them servicing me and helping me release is super good. Sometimes I got lucky and have fj with them. I think being their regular plays a part but whether can click or not is another thing. Two of the MLs even brought them out for food or and let me stayover at their place.

...Fast forward today I am with my gf of 2years. Sex and everything is good and we are in the midst of fBTO. But roughly 2 months ago, we went for couple massage and the masseur who massaged me is a msian SYT. I got hard a couple of times especially when the masseur daringly tease me by brushing her fingers across my dick, even with my gf beside (no curtains. We are in one big room). So I smiled at her and she smiled back. At that point I suddenly fucking miss massages.

So.... 2 days later, I went back to the same spa and book the same SYT who massaged me. She gave me a hj towards the end and said that I am a bad boy to return and find her.

Ever since then... I find myself constantly going to massages again! But the furthest I did is strictly only HJ and roaming their breast. No BJ (not even capped) no fj no nothing else.

My gf can massage me and blow me and everything... but I still want to go massages...

Am I at the point of no return? Do I need to go for counseling or therapy?
Any attached bros or married bros can help in this kind of situation?

[kombust]

that's just your biological programming. we need to fuck as many girls as we can.

try to go cold turkey before you fall too deep.

[Ventus91]

I shall ask on behalf of the rest and say

Intro spa location leh

[mariechan92]

Share contact pls

[Brother]

It's normal lah... Take it as a txn and enjoy the 1hr of massage + HJ, no feelings attached.. but if u start feeling more, missing the ML, etc, suggest u stop visiting the ML.

[keehup]

Originally Posted by Ventus91

I shall ask on behalf of the rest and say

Intro spa location leh

Thanks bro, you sure can read our minds!

[SammyLee88]

is normal that people always look for fresh people for excitement

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by Brother

It's normal lah... Take it as a txn and enjoy the 1hr of massage + HJ, no feelings attached.. but if u start feeling more, missing the ML, etc, suggest u stop visiting the ML.

stop already less excitement, life will be little dull

[zetrio2002]

What's wrong with going for massage? It's normal human desires. Should go for more.

[embracez]

Please let me help you stop

Please PM me the place Abd the name of the ML

[xiasangju]

nth wrong, as long as you go back to your gf at the end of the day

[boyboy1001]

Once the trust broken between bgr , it cannot be repaired.........but if really cannot contain , handjob is safe because you wont carry back anything to the gf , everything else avoid bah

Please PM me the location hahax

[wilsonx]

It is only a problem if you find this thrill of yours harming your life (Finance/love life).
Nothing inherently wrong with finding MLs.
Since it sounds like you are really into your GF and soon to be wife, better to stop. Talk to a counsellor/therapist and find out why you have this urge. (sometimes we need someone to talk to, to realise things).

Serious talk aside, pm location leh XD

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by jackson59

My gf can massage me and blow me and everything... but I still want to go massages...

Am I at the point of no return? Do I need to go for counseling or therapy?
Any attached bros or married bros can help in this kind of situation?

Seriously, I don't see any problems here.

Even if you go for counseling, the counselor will tell you that regular massages are actually good for your general well-being.

You can still do what you like even after you marry your current gf. But just don't get caught.

[therush69]

Originally Posted by SammyLee88

is normal that people always look for fresh people for excitement

But it is not normal when guy seeks excitement with another fresh guy